Forgiving someone who has wronged you does not make the past disappear — but new, large-scale research shows it reliably blunts the emotional sting those memories continue to deliver, with measurable effects on revenge, avoidance, and benevolence toward the offender.
Background
Forgiveness is one of those human actions that sits at the crossroads of morality, emotion, and memory. For centuries philosophers and faith traditions have debated whether forgiveness is a moral imperative, a...