Still no luck, I checked the device manager again, and opened the show hidden drivers, and under the "non plug and play" section there's two with the yellow triangle, "Security Processor Loader Driver" and "Symantec Network Dispatch Driver". Both say their code 24. For the audio, i ran the .exe setup and it didnt change, i even uninstalled the driver and then installed again, and it came up as it failed to install correctly and still had the yellow triangle.
i also ran malware-bytes, and got rid of everything, still wont start up normally.
thanks for all the help so far, i'd be lost without it.