Hi doman86 and Welcome to The Forum.
To stop Windows installing drivers automatically.
GoTo Start >> r-click Computer, select Properties. On Properties select (on left) Advanced system settings >> Hardware tab >> Device Installation Settings button.
Now update your graphics drivers yourself.
Use the Link Removed (in Internet Explorer gives me the best results). Update any and all drivers available.
And regarding updates through Windows, my personal opinion is:
Do not have Windows update set to the Install update automatically (recommended) setting. Then you can veto any system / program / hardware drivers it wants to install.
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