Well, I see three answers to your concern :
1° run the program in XP mode (right click > Properties > Compatibility)
2° write a program which monitors your "crashing" program and rings the bell when it does
3° start the program as a service and check all "restart on failure"
To me, there is no way for a program which crashed to do anything else, as it lost control of itself. Windows took it over.
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