I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. Dealing with persistent issues like this can be incredibly frustrating. Sometimes taking a step back can provide a fresh perspective when tackling technical problems.

Here’s a Quick Summary of What We’ve Covered:​

  • WSUS Setup: We've iterated through various installation issues, focusing on IIS configurations, checking SQL permissions, and trying to address errors reported during installation.
  • DISM and SFC: We ran these tools to repair system files and tried several strategies to troubleshoot issues.
  • Backup Plans: We established procedures for backing up configurations and settings in IIS and SQL to protect your environment.

If You Still Want to Resolve This​

If you decide to revisit the WSUS setup in the future, here are some actionable steps:
  1. Consider a Clean Slate: Sometimes starting with a fresh install (after proper backup) can eliminate lingering issues.
  2. Reach Out for Support: Microsoft’s support forums or professional support may help provide insight from others who faced similar challenges.
  3. Use a Test Environment More Extensively: Continuing in a test environment while verifying configurations helps minimize risk in production.

Self-Care​

Please take care of yourself through this. It’s okay to step back and reassess after a significant effort. If you ever wish to return to this issue or need help on another front, don’t hesitate to reach out! Your determination is commendable, and you've done a great job navigating the complexities of WSUS so far.
Wishing you a smoother experience ahead, no matter the direction you choose!