Hi
How old is the computer?
Where did you download the driver from, did you get it from HP website of one of those
"Download your driver generic sites"?
It's possible (but not likely) that this is malware related, but you may have just had a failure of the drive, it happens some times.
If you have any bootable disk, i.e. a Windows install disk, put it in the DVD drive and see if it is recognized by the bios.
You can download a Windows install disk from here...
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Select the option to create media.
If it fails to recognize the DVD make sure that it's set as the first option in the boot order.
If it still malfunctions then you may have has some failure of the mother board.
If you can't get it to recognize any...