Ok I have localized the issue. It is the TV tuner card. If it is in any PCI-E 1X slot, it will cause a failure to sleep on the 2nd and subsequent sleep attempts. Not the first, but starting with the second. Super weird. I reinstalled windows, split my raid and removed the raid card. Finally I removed my tuner card only to have it perform perfectly. Reinstalled the tuner into a different slot and still have the issue. This is ridiculous.
I used Powercfg -energy and did not get anything but a usb hub issue that I removed.
The system is this:
Gigabyte GA-EP35-DS3L mobo
Intel QX6850 Core 2 Quad Extreme 3.33ghz
2x2gb G.Skill Ram @ 1000mhz
MSI R6850 Cyclone/ PE
2 x 250gb, 1TB, and 2TB drives
Blu Ray burner
Rosewill 500W PSU