Alright to answer your questions:
1. Yes. Vista will be completley wiped and 7 will replace it, your PC will work fine.
2. I wouldnt recommend an upgrade, Ive never done it before but if you want a 100% shot at getting a working PC again, I recommend you ditch it and just do a clean install.
3. If your computer still has the sticker on it, it should say the OS it came preloaded with, like mine says Windows 7 Home Premium 64 bit on the sticker. If you dont know, then its a 50-50 chance to be honest. I have not tried installing a 32 bit system on a 64 bit processor, I think it SHOULD work but theres always the chance it may not. However, if you try to put a 64 bit OS on a 32 bit system, it will not get past the Windows is loading files screen. If you have absolutley no clue as to what your OS is, just get 32 bit.
But if you have a gateway PC, there is a gateway recovery option. I accessed it without booting by firstly changing my BIOS to boot from CD, then burning a recovery dvd and running Gateway recovery. Always worth a shot