FINALLY!! The problem has been cracked and after a year I have Aero goodness. I've restarted my computer twice, shut down once and its still here, none of that dull grey task bar I have to wake up to anymore!
The culprit was a program called gamerOSD which was embedded within my graphics card software, although I have also removed Wintv7 aswell, but some how I think the gamerosd was the problem as this program was constantly running silently in the background.
Eitherway I'm well happy, and just want to say a massive thanks to all you guys that helped me through this problem. Man I was on the verge of returning my card, I even flashed my damn bios over this problem lol.
Ahhhhwell once again thanks a lot for all the help
Cheers!