Have you made sure the connections are both ends are secure.
The next thing we need to look at is your video card.
Could you give us the exact make and model of the card?
This may help.........Go to Start, Run, and type msinfo32.
Expand the Components section and look under Display entry.
Post back with that info.
Name NVIDIA GeForce 7100 / NVIDIA nForce 630i (Microsoft Corporation - WDDM)
PNP Device ID PCI\VEN_10DE&DEV_07E1&SUBSYS_2A64103C&REV_A2\3&2411E6FE&1&80
Adapter Type GeForce 7100 / nForce 630i, NVIDIA compatible
Adapter Description NVIDIA GeForce 7100 / NVIDIA nForce 630i (Microsoft Corporation - WDDM)
Adapter RAM 128.00 MB (134,217,728 bytes)
Installed Drivers nvd3dumx.dll,nvd3dum,nvwgf2umx.dll, nvwgf2um
Driver Version 8.15.11.8593
INF File nv_lh.inf (nv4_C7x section)
Color Planes Not Available
Color Table Entries 4294967296
Resolution 1400 x 1050 x 59 hertz
Bits/Pixel 32
Memory Address 0xED000000-0xEDFFFFFF
Memory Address 0xD0000000-0xDFFFFFFF
Memory Address 0xEE000000-0xEEFFFFFF
IRQ Channel IRQ 22
I/O Port 0x000003B0-0x000003BB
I/O Port 0x000003C0-0x000003DF
Memory Address 0xA0000-0xBFFFF
Driver c:\windows\system32\drivers\nvlddmkm.sys (8.15.11.8593, 11.04 MB (11,572,512 bytes), 7/13/2009 2:59 PM)
I have also made sure that the rivers are up to date. and all connections are good