I have installed the newest NIC driver from Intel (instead of the WDM Windows Driver) and that seamed to solve, atleast, this issue, but another one has come up:
Windows keep shutting off my NIC when my laptop goes into "sleep mode" and I do sleep mode in quotations because the laptop is still on but my monitor is off, a simple keypress or mouse action will "wake" the computer.
SÃ¥ when the computer "wakes up" the NIC has go get a new dhcp address and all my things are disconnected (RDP, Messenger, Skype, Dameware NT Utilities, etc.) I have removed the checkmark in the NIC properties where windows is able to shut off the NIC, does not help. But this issue is another side of the story and not related to this thread, just thought id share. Anyhow, upgrade from Windows WDM driver to Intel's driver seamed to fix it.