Mike.
Have you tried going into the old legacy Control panel - System, and selecting "Advanced system settings", over on the left.
Click on Hardware Tab in system properties.
Click on Device installation settings.
Select No, Let Me choose what to do.
Select "Never install driver software from Windows Update".
Save changes.
I have read reports that this does not seem to work, in a few cases, with Windows 10.
I have my updates (in the new Control Panel), set to "Notify to schedule restart". I have a look first, before I schedule, or "restart now", to make sure it will not interfere with any work I am currently doing.
Otherwise you might try the hack to bring back the old update interface, but I believe this can result in problems for updating though future builds.