The MicroSoft support centre has now helped out with this problem. There initial response was to try all the things that I had done. They then put me in touch with the NVIDIA support team, again their initial response was to do all the things that I had done. Eventually they suggested going to their driver archive and loading an earlier driver, version 186.18, which has now allowed me to set up a custom 1440 * 900 resolution which appears to be stable. The system still shows the monitor as 17" rather than the actual 19", but atleast I now have a usable system with the best resolution.