So it's been 8+ hours now and the net is working normally in safe mode. However the other laptop was turned off....I'll turn the other laptop on now for a few hours...if still nothing happens, then we know for sure that it's not a laptop-laptop problem, or a router-router problem.
Will post in a few hours..
update #1
Both computers are running for 3 hours now without any disconnects. Both have the browser service disabled and mine is idle in safe mode/networking.
update #2
Was running both computers (mine in safe mode) for 2 hours now with no problems. I turned on the browser server on the other laptop, I can turn it on on mine - I'm guessing because of the safe mode...However, by now it should disconnect but it didn't..soo....is it a issue with one of my programs? =/ or a driver maybe? was having some problems with connectivity when i first installed win7...so hard to find the driver for my atheros net adapter in the laptop...but then I updated the firmware on the ruter and everything somehow started to work (I found somewhere that there's know issues with my tipe of net adapter and this asus router and that helped....kinda...).
update #3
The comp is running in normal windows for 2-3 hours now already with no problems. I turned off winfirewall and spydoctor(however, the antivirus seems that is still running...just the "intelliguard" thingie is turn off-able). I closed any processes that I thought were unecessary and all that I knew are connected to the net somehow. My computer browser service was disabled untill now, her's was enabled. I enabled mine now. We'll see if this was causing the issue, if not, i'll start running programs one by one...
update #4
Everything ran normally untill now. I'm turning on one program at a time and waiting a few hours. I've turned Bitcomet on now. Next is spydoctor in a couple of hours.
update #5
Bingo! think i found it! after i turned spydoctor on, the problem reocurred after a while....before spydoctor, everything else (bitcomet, online games, msn, browsers,...) except winfirewall was running normally. I turned spydoctor off now and turned winfirewall and windefender on. We'll see if the problem reoccurs.