Yes, you are.
I had something I always did when I played drums by myself (without my band). I'd always be listening to a cassette or cd and play with it.
I sometimes applied that with my nephew, if someone else was home.
If it was just us two there I didn't do it.
Those were his real lesson times with me teaching him.
I only go to teach him for about 2 years, as my brother's family moved from California to Georgia.
My brother used to play drums, too. He just didn't keep up with it, like I did.
When I first moved to California, he knew a few bands and he bragged to all of them about me, prior to me moving there.
I had to go watch & play with Pretty Boy Floyd at a practice of there's my 1st Saturday night in California.
I'll be glad when I move back there, that's for sure.
My brother's back out there now.
His 3 kid's are like him & I are Scattered all over the U.S.